Saturday, October 20, 2007

Shutting Down the Gap

Therefore I say unto you, what things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them
Mark 11:24
You are probably wondering at my use of scripture in today's blog, but it ties in perfectly with what we began discussing yesterday. If you haven't had a chance to read yesterday's blog, I would recommend you begin there so that you are on the same page with today's information.
Yesterday I spoke with you about a different way to view your Emotional Guidance System, and that included the little 'i', the 'I', and the 'I AM' or Inner Being dimensional aspects of you. The little 'i' is that aspect of you that struggles through feeling fear, disempowerment and other low vibratory emotional states. It is the furthest away from your Source or Inner Being state, which I am calling your I AM self. The 'I' self is aware of it's Inner Being (whereas the 'i' may not be), but still struggles with low vibratory emotions, like worry or anger--still not in the Joy filled, Passionate Vibration of the I AM/Inner Being state.

If you recall, I mentioned that as you are going about your daily business, you are constantly having new desires pop up. You may see a beautiful car and instantly radiate a desire to have a car just like it. Or perhaps you hear of someone hitting the lottery and think that you would like to have a subtantial amount of money available to you too. In the moment that you have the desire, even if you never voice it, the Universe surges forward and becomes that expanded version of Itself--and even more importantly, your Inner Being rides that wave of expansion and becomes it vibrationally. So, in the moment you have that desire--boom! It exists in non-physical.

When Jesus told his followers to pray as if their desire already was, he was essentially trying to get them to move to the window of their I Am self or Inner Being. In the moment that you know your good exists, even though it may not be visible to you, you have shut down the gap between you and your Inner Being/I AM dimensional self--and now the Law of Attraction must find a way to bring your desire into physical manifestation (a step, by the way, that is not yours to figure out!).

Now as a working psychic I can tell you it's hard as heck to get people to work consistently with the Law of Attraction--and it's hard for me to be consistent with the use of the LOA in my own life, at all times, as well. Can you imagine Jesus standing in front of his followers and saying, "Well, you are a multi-dimensional being. And even though you can't see it, there is an aspect of you that remains in Non-Physical even when you come here in the physical world and begin an incarnation as a baby. Your Non-Physical self projected you forward as a thought into the physical world and here you are!"

People today may still have a hard time with that notion, but it helps you understand why prayer may not work sometimes. Often when we pray, we are praying from the stand point of the 'i'. In other words, we are focused on the absence of the thing we desire--something Abraham discusses in a lot of their books and DVD's . If you can gently release your fearful, thoughts (perhaps by using one of the processes in Ask & It Is Given) until you feel relief...and then gradually climb the Emotional Guidance scale until you get from fear, to pessimism, to optimism/hope, to faith to knowing--and then voila you will have shut down the gap between your physical experience (and you) and the knowingness of your Inner Being.

Abraham is very clear about the fact that you only feel negative emotion when you have a gap between what you are currently focused on and the place your Inner Being now occupies--and now perhaps you can see that even Jesus was trying to explain this powerful Universal Law 2000 years ago. It isn't well understood by many in the physical world even today, despite the efforts of both past and present teachers to explain how the Law of Attraction works.
If you are one of the many who have seen the movie The Secret, you probably are aware that Esther Hicks/Abraham were removed from the expanded version of the DVD due to legal issues. Apparently they were asked to give up their Intellectual Property rights, and understandably they chose not to. But without the understanding of your Non-Physical aspect, the whole idea of an Emotional Guidance System is lacking power. To feel good can in and of itself bring you into alignment with your own Inner Being, but if you don't understand that that alignment is absolutely necessary in order to manifest the things that are waiting in the holding pen that Abraham calls your 'vibrational escrow'...well let's just say, you can wind up frustrated in your attempts to use the Law of Attraction consistently.

So, you do the list process or any of the other of Abraham's processes/games in order to align with your own Inner Source. As a psychic I always wondered why my Higher Self/Inner Being never seemed to get bent out of shape the way I did about my physical world issues--it can't. It has already rode the wave of Well Being that was my desire and from its perspective, All is Well.

If you are a client of mine or perhaps you have visited with another psychic and you have concerns about a relationship, let's say, you might experience something like the following scenario: the psychic indicates that the relationship is probably not going to make it and you say, 'fine I am just going to move on', and the psychic says, no-- you can't. You are being told no because you have already created a relationship somewhere with someone--and are now needing to get in alignment with your Inner Being to manifest it. Your job is to stay focused on the essence of what you want--a great relationship (not a relationship with a specific person) and thus you shut down the gap. Staying elated can be challenging--so use the processes to help yourself along.

This was, for me at least a real a-ha experience and I hope you enjoyed today's blog. Share it with others and don't be afraid to ask questions if today's material confuses you. I desire for you to be able to find a multitude of ways to shut down the gap between you and your desires. Imagine a world full of people consistently using the Law of Attraction and getting their desires! Wouldn't that be something?

All for now, more tomorrow! And if you can't wait, check out my website...


Saturday, October 13, 2007

The Power of And

That which is like unto itself is drawn, so the vibration of your Being must match the vibration of your desire in order for your desire to be fully received by you. You cannot desire something, predominantly focus on the absence of it, and then expect to receive it, because the vibrational frequency of its absence and the vibrational frequency of its presence are very different frequencies. Another way of saying that is: Your desires and your beliefs must be a vibrational match in order for you to receive that which you desire.
~Ask & It Is Given


I am enjoying a quiet evening and thought I would take this opportunity to share something that someone pointed out to me this week. The above quote is a reminder of something that nearly all of us overlook at one time or another. As focusing beings we can be extremely focused on what is...which can lead to miscreating. And I know it's hard not to be hyper aware of what appears to be real, but understand your now experience was also focused into being; you are going to have to find a way to focus more on what you want, and not on what is. Or at least find a way not to think or talk about that person, situation or thing that is bothering you quite as much.

I thought I would talk about the power of the word and. It's a small word, but quite powerful. Let's say you haven't had a relationship in awhile, or maybe you can't seem to break out of your current work situation...and you are naturally focused on that. When I talk to you as a client you may say it's been x number of months/years since your last relationship. That focus in and of itself stops the energy from flowing in the direction you desire. So, how can you look at the situation in a way that matches your burgeoning desire for a new relationship? You can reframe the situation and say that you are now ready to begin meeting great new people. Notice that I didn't say you were going to meet "The One", just that you were ready to begin meeting fantastic new people. Nor did we discuss how long it's been since you were in a relationship or what a louse the last person was. We put the focus on meeting great new people. That statement shifts the energy and gets you back in the flow and it doesn't put pressure on you (or the poor soul you first date) to be The One. If you are currently dating someone and you're sensing there are things about that person that may not work for you, you might say to yourself, "I have been seeing someone and I am open to meeting other new friends as well." The same could be said about work...I am working at such and such a place and I am looking at new things I might do to give me additional income. Small word, but it packs a nice, expansive punch.

Now, you might be uncomfortable about being on the opposite end of a relationship where someone is saying "and I'm looking to meet new friends..." And that's also understandable, but I'd like to have a dollar for every person I've worked with who has finally met someone they like and then comes back to say, "But they are doing this or they're not doing that, and I don't like it." As focusing beings we help the Universe expand with our ever expanding desires for more. More love, more fun, more connection, more money...that is the name of the game. As Abraham says, you can never get it done and you can never get it wrong. Does that mean all our relationships are doomed? No, it means you've met someone and now you will begin the work of being in relationship, or put another way, you will begin to refine your desire. Pay attention to what works for you in the relationship or job situation. Give appreciation for it and think of what new desires you'd like to manifest in the situation. If you start harping on what's wrong, you know you're just going to get more of the same stuff that upsets you.

So, if you've got a super anal boss, you might say, "Gee, I'm grateful for this job, it allows me to go to school and prepare for the next step up in my career.", or whatever is most appropriate. Try to avoid, "My boss is an ******* and I hate this job. What was I thinking when I accepted this position?" Even if it is true, the vibration is so low, I'd hate to think of what you're likely to manifest as a consequence of long term thought of this kind.

So, watch your thoughts and words--make them work for you in powerful, positive ways. And don't forget to think in terms of expansion--use the word and--it can give you a whole new positive perspective.

Since tomorrow is Sunday, I will post a bulletin with a tip for the day and we'll be back to blogging Monday. So, if you're not one of my listed friends here on Myspace, you might like to send a please add note to me--otherwise you won't receive the tip of the day.

Wishing you a blissful holiday weekend (for those of you in the U.S.), and we'll talk again soon.

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Experiment (continued)

The standard of success in life isn't the things. It isn't the money or the stuff. It is absolutely the amount of joy that you feel. --- Abraham

I hope you have enjoyed a wonder-filled, effortless flow of miracles this week--I know I certainly have! The preceeding quote might help you shift your thinking away from troublesome areas of life to a landscape that is focused on happiness and joy. What would it be like if you spent a whole day making happiness your priority--meaning that whatever the rest of the world does you are only going to keep your focus on that which brings joy into your experience? Interesting idea, eh?

Quite often we find ourselves dealing with a million and one situations during our waking hours. We either aren't aware that those million and one things affect our overall vibration or we don't understand the potential their affect has on our manifesting power. Once you get it that there is nothing more important than your being able to say you feel good--irregardless of your current life experience--you will begin to manifest happier scenarios in your life. As a friend of mine said to me this week, "If I can just shift my energy once, I'll start manifesting like crazy!" This person is a master manifester. They get it that they can't focus on the butt end of the horse and get anything they truly desire.

Hopefully you now have a copy of Ask & It Is Given and are trying the experiment. No one can do the work for you to change your life. No one can think your thoughts for you (fortunately!). And nothing is going to change until you do, so I hope you'll consider this a 30-day Law of Attraction diet. Begin to be a bit happier. Begin to focus on thoughts that give you some relief from anger, frustration, fear or grief--bring in joyful activities and do the little exercises for our experiment daily. And if you're thinking it's too late to start, it's not! Begin today, exactly where you are! Make the commitment to yourself, for yourself--don't wait another day!
I am so looking forward to hearing about your tranformations, miracles and wonderful surprises. But don't do this for me, do it for you. And don't forget to post your stories here. I know you can do this...and it will get easier as the days of October fly by.
Wishing you a weekend full of effortless joy...



Sunday, October 7, 2007



I am taking a moment just to mention to those of you kind enough to read this blog, that if you click on the link to my website you will see a full listing of my blogs with other tidbits of information. So, if you see me mention a book or CD or something and desire to know more about it--it's on my website: See you there!

Be Well,

Saturday, October 6, 2007


I am continuing my blog regarding the Harvest Experiment begun earlier this week. I hope you enjoy it and if you do, please share with those you think may find it useful. Namaste!

You are eternal Consciousness, currently in this wonderful physical body for the thrill and exhilaration of specific focus and creation. The physical being that you define as "you" stands on the Leading Edge of thought, while Consciousness, which is really your Source, pours through you. And in those moments of inexpressible elation, those are the times when you are wide open and truly allowing your Source to express through you.

Sometimes you are fully allowing the true nature of your Being to flow through you, and sometimes you do not allow it to flow. This book is written to help you understand that you have the ability to always allow your true nature to pour through you, and that as you learn to consciously allow your full connection with the You that is your Source, your experience will be one of absolute joy. By consciously choosing the direction of your thoughts, you can be in constant connection with Source Energy, with God, with joy, and with all that you consider to be good.

~Ask & It Is Given


I hope you find something useful in the preceeding quote as I am keeping my end of the bargain during our Harvest Experiment. I will continue to offer you tips, quotes, my personal experiences and the experiences of others to gently nudge you off the sidelines and into personal expression with your life and with the experiment. It is not my intention to force anyone to do anything, only to offer guidance to friends and fellow travelers on this road we call life.

This morning I had a message from one of my clients. She is experiencing some challenges and wanted to know if I saw any astrological shifts that would allow her situation to become more enjoyable. Well, that is what the experiment is for. There are some very interesting astrological placements in place now and some others that are going to make transformation the name of the game for at least the next several years. The first is Saturn being in Virgo. Though I have mentioned it before, I mention it briefly again because Virgo is the sign of service, health and care of dependents. So no matter where Virgo shows up in your chart, you are likely to have a reason to consider how you work (give service), or reexamine your life habits with regard to health issues. You may find you have reasons to be concerned about your dependents--parents, children or pets in the next three years. Since nearly all of us work or provide service--and this includes your children (school may be more arduous during the next several years...), we all can potentially benefit from learning how to work with the Law of Attraction. The experiment is about changing your paradigm from being at effect in your life to being at cause. You change your focus intentionally, which changes your vibration, which changes your life.

And on that note, I will ask, have you started your list making? Have you read Process 10 and Chapter 22? And all you advanced students out there, have you begun reading Chapter one yet? I ask this only to gently prod you from your inertia. The mercury retrograde is coming, I might add, and since this retrograde will definitely affect my aforementioned client, I now add the fact that mercury retrogrades from Scorpio into Libra! These two signs involve your intimate relationships, other people's money (very important for those involved in business!), and relationships in general. Becoming a bit more proactive now may make the whole retrograde a non-issue...

To give you some incentive, I began my list (and yes, I am doing the work too!); I did my reading per the experiment instructions. I had a terrible time with a company I do business with. Their phone associates never knew the answers to my questions, faxed paper work was lost and I was frustrated to say the least. Yesterday I put on my list that my paperwork would be found and that my conversation with a company rep would be effortless. And it was. The conversation took no time at all, my faxed paperwork was in and being processed. I love it! By the way, two of my favorite words are effortless ease (borrowed from Luanne Oakes, see the book below). I use it all the time in framing my intentions. Who wouldn't want to experience scenarios with effortless ease? Here's hoping this little story will encourage you to dig through your books and find your copy of Ask & It Is Given, or get you to pick up your copy this afternoon or on the way to work. You can begin the experiment any time, but why wait? And I absolutely cannot wait to have you post your experiences here on this blog. Don't wait! Inspire yourself--and inspire others as well! Share your story...

Wishing you a delicious day, a delicious week and loads of effortless ease...more tips tomorrow!

Blessings & Light


Friday, October 5, 2007

The Experiment (continued)

Well, if you've been reading along the past few days, you are aware that I've offered tips on working with the Law of Attraction--an experiment if you will, for October. Here is round two and don't forget to check out my url

Your action has nothing to do with your abundance! Your abundance is a response to your vibration. Of course, your belief is part of your vibration. So if you believe that action is part of what brings your abundance, then you've got to unravel that. --- Abraham


In keeping with the idea of doing a Harvest Experiment, I offer you the preceeding Abraham quote. It is a concept that I think Westerners, in particular, struggle can writing a list make a difference? Don't I need to get out there and make things happen? You know, do something?!

Well, The Placemat Process doesn't say you won't do anything, it's just that as you practice this process you will become clearer about what it is you desire/need--so your actions will be better informed. Just the process of writing out a list will tend to force you to get more clarity around the issue of what you actually want. You can also pay attention to how you feel as you do the process. Personally I experience a sense of relief in knowing that I have help in attracting what I need and I don't have to do it all by myself. You may remember that I blogged earlier about having an aspect of you that exists in Non-Physical right now. If that is a new concept for you, if you have thought your Soul, Higher Self, Golden Angel, Ralph or whatever you call that piece of you that is immortal and at one with Source at all times, is offline until you die--consider looking at that concept again. That aspect of you shifts vibrationally as you have a desire and becomes the non-physical vibration of your new desire. As a result of that shift you will experience an emotion--joy, passion, or love are indicators that you are well aligned vibrationally with the new desire (See Chapter 22 of the book Ask & It Is Given). The lower vibration emotions (doubt, worry, fear, powerlessness) are indicators from your Non-Physical Self that you are not in alignment with what you truly desire. The process of figuring out what you want and assigning the things that overwhelm you to the Universe, allows you to soften your fear, doubt, etc--what Abraham refers to as resistance. And that allows for your good to flow to you in a faster, more effortless way.

The second thing you need to know about doing less this month is that Mercury is going retrograde on the 11th of October through to the first of November. Mercury will not clear its retrograde shadow until about the 22nd of November. I can hear some of you groaning already. Mercury retrogrades are a time when taking stock and figuring out what is working for you and what isn't, is key. The more you try to force your will on situations, the more frustrated you are likely to be, since Mercury retrogrades are notorious for snarled communications, car troubles, computer breakdowns, etc. So, consider trying the experiment--it can't hurt, right? And who knows, you might find a way up, over, and around the challenges of the Mercury retrograde while barely lifting a finger.

For more insight into how you are likely to be impacted by the retrograde, visit and if you know your rising sign, be sure to read that information as well as the information foryour sun sign.

So, here is a second invitation to consider the experiment--don't be shy! I am looking forward to hearing from those of you who decide to give the experiment a shot. What worked for you? What confused you or didn't seem to work terribly well? I love the fact that we can interact and share with kindred spirits in places far from our homes--so let's take advantage of this wonderful technology and see what surprises the Universe has for us in the month of October!


Wednesday, October 3, 2007

The Harvest

Good morning! Well, at least it is a good morning for me in this now moment. The following is a piece I orignally posted on my myspace. It is a Law of Attraction experiment for creating the things you desire to have in your life. If you are familiar with The Secret, or Ask & It Is Given, you may find this piece of interest. For more information please visit:


Happy Fall! The Autumn Equinox occurred last week and I know some of you are busily working on your own personal harvests in work, relationships, health, etc. I thought it might be fun to try a group experiment with the law of attraction this month. I will offer some tips for gaining ground in the various areas of your life and you can implement them as little or as much as you like so by Halloween we can determine if the law of attraction holds any special magic for you.

It will help if you have a copy of the book Ask & It is Given, as that is going to provide the basic material for our experiment. If you don't have a copy of the book, you can either borrow one from a friend, or consider purchasing the book or CD. The idea is to begin at the beginning with a basic understanding of some of the principles of the Law of Attraction and then start to apply that understanding--as little or as much as we desire, for best effect.

How will you know if this experiment is for you? Well, are there any areas of your life that could use improvement? Would you like to try something new in order to affect a positive outcome in your life? I am going to ask that you read the preface and the introduction to Abraham...this is useful even if you have gone over the material before. I find every time I read the material I see something that I didn't see during previous reads. And if you're not familiar with Abraham, it is really important that you read these sections so you fully understand what the material is about, and whether or not this experiment is something you feel comfortable working with.
After you read the preface and introduction, then for first level of our experiment you will read Chapter 22 in Ask & It is Given and then do process 10. It is a simple process and probably can be used by most people with good results. The only proviso is for those of you who may be in crisis mode--and if you feel you currently lie somewhere below overwhelment on the emotional scale (see Chapter 22), email me and I will help find a better process for you depending on your personal circumstances.

Level one is the most basic level for our experiment, so if you don't have much time this will probably be the right level for you to work at...Keep in mind though, you will get out of a situation what you put into it!

The second level will require you to read Chapter one on the first day of your experiment as well as Chapter 22. You will then read process 1 and process 10 before writing out your To-Do lists. On day two you will read Chapter two and then do your To-Do list and so on. This level will be useful review for those who have worked with the Abraham-Hicks material, and will lay a good foundation for beginners as well. Those of you who have only minor life changes will probably work well with this level and I will be offering daily pointers, blogs or bulletins for additional insights as we move through the month.

The third level you will read a chapter and a process per day. So, on the first day (after you've read the preface and the introduction, of course!) you will begin with Chapter 22 and Process 10--and then you will do your To-Do lists. On the Second Day you will read Chapter One and Process 2--and then you will write out your To-Do list. Day three you will read Chapter 2 and read process 3--and then write out your To-Do lists--and so on and so forth. This level is for someone who has a major intention they are hoping to manifest. It is also useful if your life is in crisis and you want to begin feeling more secure and confident. If you've never worked with the Abraham material before, this might be a good place to begin. You will acquire understanding as you read new chapters and processes.

Keep in mind our experiment is not tailor made and many of you may work at level one on one day and then change to level two or three depending on the circumstances of your lives--and that's okay! The idea is that each of us will work with the Law of Attraction at least a little bit everyday and then tally our results at the end of the month.

The Emotional Guidance scale is key to our experiment, and this is what Abraham says about it: "The most important thing for you to acknowledge before you apply any of these processes is how you are feeling right now--and how you would like to feel. At the beginning of each process, we have indicated an emotional range that we suggest for each one. Any of the process that fall within the emotional range that you believe you are feeling right now is a perfect place to begin."
So, if you need a little advice on where to start email me! I am looking forward to seeing how you experience the Law of Attraction in creating beautiful life shifts for yourself. Feeling happier, having more career and relationship success--whatever it is that you seek! Since the end of the harvest season is traditionally marked at Halloween for Wiccans I thought this might be just the thing to bring this year's personal harvests to a magical close. And if you know anyone who might like to manifest a thing or two, share this blog with them and have them join the party.

Next week, we'll tweak our processes a bit and add some new ways to work with the Law of Attraction. Happy Manifesting!


Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Introducing Me!


My name is Dee and I thought it would be best to kick off this blog with a bit of information on who I am, what I do, etc. So, here we go!

As I just mentioned my name is Dee and I am from Los Angeles--rather an oddity it seems, for there are few people I've met who actually were born in LA who now live there. Currently I reside in Alabama (it's a long story) where I am a Spiritual Coach working with the tarot, astrology, numerology, crystals, energy balancing, feng shui, Universal Laws (such as the Law of Attraction), and other metaphysical tools to assist my clients in reaching their goals.

I have a myspace, so please come visit me at as there are a lot more blogs with great information available on the site. You can also send me an email or make comments if you wish and I'd love to hear from you.

This month I am sponsoring a Law of Attraction experiment. Since mercury is due to be retrograde during the month of October, I thought it might be fun to see how powerful the Law of Attraction can be in terms of helping shift our energies and overcome the normal obstacles associated with mercury retrogrades.

So, I hope I get to meet you, either on this blog or on Myspace. Wishing you a delicious week!